Practical Stress Management Tips for Seniors

If stress feels different than it used to, you’re not alone. What used to be inconveniences are now overwhelming to deal with. What’s going on, and how can you work through it? 

It can be confusing to know what’s normal versus what needs attention when it comes to stress management for seniors. But experiencing stress as an older adult is normal, and you can learn healthy coping strategies to work through it. This guide walks you through why stress can feel different as you get older and offers simple steps to take back control. 

Key takeaways

• Stress can change as you get older, because of health conditions, life changes, and how you handle emotions. 
• Making small healthy changes can set you up for bigger improvements in your physical and mental health. 
• Therapy can provide helpful support, especially when stress starts to affect your mood, daily activities, and overall health. 

Why stress shows up differently later in life

The factors that can cause you to become stressed are different when you’re older than when you were younger. Years ago, job stress, rebellious teenagers, and financing a mortgage may have kept you awake at night. But now, new stressors can affect your emotions, such as:

• Health issues
• Multiple medications
• Longer recovery from activity and illness

Even aging itself can make everyday stressors hit harder. One study found that older adults may not have an immediate reaction to stress, but they can have more negative emotions when dealing with these stressors, such as anxiety or depression. Small disruptions in your life might feel bigger than they once did. 

Common stressors affecting older adults

Some of the more common stressors that affect older adults can include:

• Appointments, restrictions, and medications that can come with having chronic health conditions
• Decline in mobility
• Financial stress from being on a fixed or shrinking income
• Loneliness, with the potential for increased grief and loss as time goes on
• A major relocation
• Changes in your identity and increased reliance on caregivers
• Caregiving stress, if you’re the one caring for a spouse

Invisible age-related stressors nobody warns you about

There are also “invisible” stressors that can happen with getting older, and you may not have even realized they’re causing you distress. Some examples include:

• Everyday things like background noise, clutter, poor lighting, and gatherings may now feel mentally exhausting due to changes in your vision, hearing, or balance
• Frustrations with technology—and how it seems ever-changing
• Fear of scams that target older adults
• Being cared for or feeling like a burden
• Feeling unseen or irrelevant

Small adjustments that make a real difference

Try small tweaks to make your environment safer—and therefore ease your mind about accidents or injuries—such as adding brighter bulbs in dimmer sections of your home and keeping walkways cleared to avoid tripping. 

Incorporate micro-routines into your day. These are small and simple habits that only take a few minutes, but can give you the boost you need to make more healthy changes in your life. Some examples are: 

• Spending five minutes gently stretching in the morning
• Having a glass of water before starting your day
• Taking the last five minutes before bed to reflect on the positive things that happened that day
• Going for a short walk

Eating small meals several times a day can help you maintain blood sugar levels. This is important because high blood sugar can make you feel tired or depressed, while low blood sugar level can make you feel nervous or upset, according to the Cleveland Clinic. 

Make sure you’re hydrated. Research has found not drinking enough water can increase levels of the stress hormone cortisol in your body. 

Getting enough sleep can also help relieve stress. Research shows 21% of adults feel stressed when they don’t get enough sleep. Aim to get seven to nine hours of sleep a night. 

Stress-reducing exercise for seniors

Exercise, or regularly moving your body, should feel good, not punishing. Match the activity you do to your energy levels that day. On low-energy days, try light stretching, chair yoga, or a short walk. On days you have more energy, you might try water aerobics or resistance bands. 

Strengthening your body in small increments can improve your confidence, balance, and emotional resiliency. When your body feels stronger, you may feel calmer in your mind. Exercise also boosts endorphins, which can lower stress levels. 

Managing mental stress 

One way to help manage stress is by practicing mindfulness. Mindfulness is simply being in the moment—noticing how you feel or what’s going on in your surroundings at that moment. This practice has been shown to decrease stress and anxiety. 

Mindfulness for seniors can be as simple as:

• Slowing down your eating and savoring the taste of food
• Taking a nature walk and listening to the birds
• Taking a few deep breaths in your chair and paying attention to your breathing

Notice when you have unhelpful thought patterns like, “Why is everything going wrong?” These patterns can make everyday problems feel catastrophic. 

When you catch yourself making these statements, try to stop yourself and turn them around. Ask yourself, “What small thing can I fix?” This technique is based on a type of therapy called cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). CBT is about replacing negative thoughts with better ways of coping. 

Renew or take up creative or hands-on hobbies that can quiet the chatter in your mind. Try knitting or crocheting, painting, woodworking, or golf. 

Journaling can also be helpful to manage stress. They don’t need to be deeply emotional entries that give you a breakthrough into your mental state, either. For you, journaling might look like a list of things that went well that day or writing down the issues that are bothering you.

Connection as a stress buffer for seniors

Social connection can help protect emotional health. But mobility concerns, fatigue, and lack of transportation can make it hard to stay in touch with loved ones. 

To stay connected with others, try:

• Planning phone calls or video chats
• Joining groups either with other older adults or with mixed ages, like book clubs, walking groups, or hobby classes
• Volunteering your time, such as knitting for charity or helping out at your local library

Social support has been shown to help older adults work through stress more effectively. Talking honestly about stress with trusted family or friends can help more than hiding it.  

When stress is a signal to seek professional support

Stress is a part of life, no matter your age. But dealing with too much stress can take a toll on your health. It might be difficult to distinguish between normal stress and an issue that needs to be addressed. Here’s how you can tell the difference:

• Stress turns into anxiety, which can persist even when nothing stressful is happening in the moment
• Stress and feelings of anxiety don’t go away, or are getting worse
• Stress is interfering with how you go about your day
• You have feelings of panic, like a racing heart or dizziness

If you’ve noticed any of these things, it might be time to get professional support. 

How therapy helps older adults manage stress

Therapy can be especially valuable later in life because it gives you space to understand how getting older has affected your emotions. A therapist can provide support for common stressors like grief, life transitions, and chronic illness. 

Evidence-based tools like CBT can be personalized to you to match your cognitive needs, mobility, or health concerns. Online or telehealth therapy through Medicare makes getting help simpler and more accessible, especially if leaving your home is difficult. With Sailor Health, you have the additional benefit of an older, experienced therapist who understands the emotional realities of aging. 

We offer therapy via computer, phone, or even landline. Plus, most of our Medicare patients have a $0 copay. Get started today by getting matched with a qualified provider, and you could begin therapy in as little as 24 hours.

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