Healing from Medical Trauma as an Older Adult

Medical post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) isn’t a personal weakness, but rather an emotional and mental response to a frightening healthcare event. In fact, medical PTSD is a recognized clinical condition that’s common in older adults and can be effectively treated with therapy. 

While your body may have healed from the surgery or illness, your nervous system remains stuck on high alert. Maybe you or a loved one had a serious complication after surgery, or a procedure that left you feeling violated, even though it was meant to help. 

Talk therapy can help you work through medical PTSD symptoms so you can reclaim a sense of safety. 

What is medical PTSD?

Medical PTSD is a specific type of post-traumatic stress triggered by medical events such as a heart attack or being hospitalized in the intensive care unit. 

Unlike PTSD from traumatic experiences like war or a car accident, medical trauma occurs in a setting where you’re vulnerable and expecting care. While most older adults recover after a serious medical concern or treatment, many can develop symptoms of medical PTSD.

Medical PTSD is different from having general anxiety about doctors. Compared to being anxious in a doctor’s office, there’s a distinct element of betrayal with medical PTSD — that the hospital or clinic that was supposed to be a place of safety and trust became a frightening experience that your nervous system remembers and wants to protect itself from. 

Why medical trauma looks different in older adults

Age-related physical frailty can make medical procedures feel more life-threatening than they would to a younger person. Older skin is thinner, there may be other health conditions involved, and there may be a fear of an injury or a fall. 

There can also be a generational factor to medical trauma. Many older adults are part of the “Stoic Generation” that experienced World War II, poverty, and the loss of family and friends. They may consider being stoic as a sign of strength. As a result, they may downplay emotional distress as just a part of getting older, which can prevent older adults from getting the support they deserve. 

Another reason why medical trauma looks different in older adults is because of overlapping symptoms, such as confusion, agitation, and memory gaps. These symptoms can be misidentified as early dementia by both family members and providers. 

Signs of medical PTSD in seniors

It’s important to recognize signs of PTSD from medical trauma, so that you or an older loved one can get the support that’s needed to heal emotionally and mentally. Some of the signs of medical PTSD can be misinterpreted as other conditions like dementia or depression. 

Specific smells (like disinfectant), sounds (like beeping monitors), or even seeing a hospital gown can cause a full-blown panic response. These are known as triggers — reminders that cause your body to relive the trauma all over again.  

Medical PTSD symptoms fall into four categories, including:

Re-experiencing

Similar to “flashbacks,” these are intrusive memories of the event that can appear as nightmares or body memories. Body memories are past experiences (in this case, negative experiences) that the body remembers and responds to. You might experience a racing pulse, sweating, or nausea. 

Avoidance

Avoiding something negative, such as a certain place or experience, is the body’s way of protecting itself. Some signs of avoidance include skipping doctor appointments, refusing to take medication, or avoiding talking about the experience. Avoidance can also be misinterpreted as the person being stubborn or confused.

While avoidance is a protective mechanism, it can negatively affect your health by preventing necessary medical care.

Hyperarousal

Hyperarousal symptoms can occur multiple times throughout the day when you have PTSD. For medical trauma, this might look like feeling on edge, startling easily, or being overly jumpy at clinic appointments. You can also feel angry, irritated, or have outbursts. 

Some of these symptoms can look similar to signs of dementia or confusion. What makes it worse is that you or your loved one might not have the words to describe what’s really going on, and that can cause others to assume something different. 

Mood and cognitive changes

Changes in mood or thinking patterns can begin or get worse after a traumatic medical event. This can include trouble remembering the main aspects of the event, overly blaming yourself or others, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, and social isolation. 

Older adults are more likely to show signs of cognitive difficulties than avoidance, which can cause a healthcare provider to misdiagnose them with dementia rather than medical PTSD. 

Why it’s important to treat medical trauma in older adults

Untreated medical trauma can lead to “healthcare phobia,” where seniors avoid medical treatments they need to stay healthy. There’s also the physical toll of untreated trauma, including chronic spikes in cortisol levels that can lead to cardiovascular problems including high blood pressure, heart attack, and stroke. 

Medical PTSD can create a vicious cycle where the hospital or clinic causes fear, which prevents you from going back to the hospital or clinic, so your health condition goes untreated, which can lead to being admitted to the hospital, causing fear to spike.

Therapy can not only help someone with medical PTSD feel better emotionally, it can even be medically necessary to break this cycle to ensure you or your loved one receives the physical healthcare you need. 

How therapy helps resolve medical trauma

The goal of therapy isn’t to forget what happened, but to lower the nervous system’s response to the memory so it no longer triggers a panic attack. After therapy, you or your loved one can think about that traumatic event without having those body responses as if it were happening again. 

Two types of therapy work well for people experiencing medical trauma. They help reprocess the medical event, and include: 

• Trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy (TF-CBT): TF-CBT works by looking at your thought patterns that formed around the traumatic event and restructuring them so they no longer bring a physical reaction. 
• Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR): EMDR works more with body processing and the senses than TF-CBT. It involves a therapist guiding you through the traumatic memory while incorporating bilateral stimulation, such as moving your eyes side to side as you follow the therapist’s finger. This is thought to change the way the event is stored in the memory, and decrease the reaction to it. 

Finding a therapist who understands medical trauma as well as the unique needs of older adults is essential to therapy. 

How Sailor Health can help

When a medical setting is the very source of your anxiety, the idea of being in a clinician’s office or sitting in a clinical waiting room can feel out of the question. Healing from medical trauma requires a space that feels safe so therapy can help you reprocess frightening healthcare experiences, quiet a hyperactive nervous system, and overcome any avoidance that might be keeping you from medical care you need.

Sailor Health makes it easier to access support by bringing specialized mental healthcare directly to you at home. Sessions are conducted entirely by video or phone call (including traditional landlines) so can get help in an environment where you feel completely comfortable.

Our therapists are experienced older adults themselves who understand that trauma can look different in later life, and they know how to tailor evidence-based approaches to your specific needs. We make it simple to get started by matching you with a therapist who fits your needs and preferences, with no waiting list. In fact, you could have your first session in as little as 24 hours after signing up. 

Because Sailor Health works directly with Medicare, most of our patients have a $0 copay. If a traumatic medical event is still weighing on you or a loved one, support may be much closer and easier to reach than you think. Reach out when you’re ready, and we’ll help you take that first step.

FAQ

Can you get PTSD from a surgery that was successful?

Yes, it’s still possible to get medical PTSD from a successful surgery. It’s not necessarily about the outcome, but rather about experiencing feelings of powerlessness, fear, or pain that can cause the nervous system to go into overdrive. 

How do I know if it’s medical PTSD or just a fear of doctors?

In general, medical PTSD happens from a specific event, such as a surgery or medical procedure, that can involve intrusive memories and nightmares associated with the event. A fear of doctors usually isn’t connected to one event or trigger, and has been going on for a long time. 

Can medical PTSD lead to chronic health anxiety?

Yes, medical trauma frequently triggers ongoing health anxiety. Because your nervous system is left stuck on high alert after a frightening healthcare event, your brain constantly scans your body for the next potential threat. This hypervigilance can cause you to over-analyze harmless physical sensations and worry that a minor symptom is a sign of a major medical emergency.

What is a body memory in the context of medical trauma?

Body memory is when your body holds onto a negative past experience and reacts to it, such as experiencing nausea, a racing heart, or feeling short of breath. 

Will a therapist make me relive the medical event over and over?

While trauma-focused therapy does involve revisiting the traumatic event, it’s in a controlled way. The goal is to decrease how intense it feels and how your body responds to the memory. Your therapist should monitor how you’re reacting to therapy and won’t push you past what you can tolerate.

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